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Men Are Clueless

I watched 'Hello Stranger' with my friends just now.
It was highly recommended by one of my housemate.
She has watched it twice and she said if she got no class today, she would join us for another round of 'Hello Stranger'
It's a Thai movie taken set in Korea.

Just like the title said, a man met a woman.
Accident by accident, they had to stick together for the rest of their vacation
(which is around 8 days if I'm not mistaken)
Firstly they hate each other.
But after sharing happiness, journey, and past stories, they started to like each other.
And than the man kiss the woman and turn their innocent game into something more complicated.
The plot thickens when the ex-girlfriend (whom the man has propose recently) came to Korea.
The man confused, as always. Then the woman choose to let the man go.. Blabla

Let's not continue further.
I think you've seen the similar story before.
You could even guess and I bet you would be 90% right. LOL

See what BUG me the most is.. How indecisive this man was???

How could he kiss the girl and expect her to continue things like nothing ever happen??
Didn't he know that a girl (well, most girls) let herself to be kissed only by the man she likes?
I mean, really, really, likes.

And when she asked him whether he likes her or not, how could she digests an 'I don't know' after the kissing stuff?

And when he's leaving with his ex (fyi, they had been together for 8 YEARS), I'm like, 'STUPID MAN' why should he hurt the woman by showing how he feels but doing exactly the other way around.

Say, he chose the girl he met on the trip.
I would also blame him of choosing an EIGHT DAYS relation over the EIGHT YEARS.




My point is..
WHY MEN ARE CLUELESS???

If he likes her, kiss her.
Well, if he doesn't, don't.

What's with giving the so-called-signal that could be misread by any normal girl???
For God sake, JUST SAY WHAT YOU WANNA SAY.
I mean, literally!

Okay I'm going too far here. LOL

What I'm asking here is just..
If you don't want me here, just stop okay.
I hate it.

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